DIARY OF HER LIFE

In the name of Allah, the most Gracious, the most Merciful,

Be someone's friend is just not about receiving but also about giving. Actually, it is a lot more about giving than receiving. We need friend because most of people doesn't like to be alone. It is nice to have someone to talk to, to walk with, to share problems and even to angry with. To be someone's friend, it is not easy. Friend is someone that you share your memory with. Friend is someone that you make memory with. Friend is someone that you want to take care of. Friend is someone that you call when you in sorrow, friend is someone that you call when you have a good day.

When someone is your friend, you expect her to understand you, you expect her to take of your feeling but when the situation didn't go well, who the one you blame? Who's fault is it? Is it you or is it her? Before you express your anger, think for a second and ask yourself this question. Did I take care of her feeling? Did I ever try to understand her? Did I ever been there when she needs me? Did I do my best while being her friend? Think.

To be someone's friend it is not an easy task. It is a task. A life's task. It is a responsible that one have to take. That's why not all people want to have friend. It is not surprising if one prefer to be alone than have friend. It is more easy that way. There is no need to take care of other's feeling, other's problems and there's even no one to be angry with that you might care. This might seem like a selfish person talking but it is still true. However, of course everything has pros and cons. It’s all depend on how one view the life.

I write to breathe

love,

fatima azmi